How do I honour my womanhood within my relationship?

He wants a woman who makes him want to step up and make her happy; to feel motivated to keep you in his life – to win you. No matter how much your heart longs to make things right for him you must take your focus off him and bring it back to YOU. Imagine you’re dating and let him know you are keeping your options open to other activities in your life; that you are being selective about what you spend your time doing.
Men love the hunt – the chase!!

It boils down to you putting yourself, your life, and what you want – first

Let’s imagine you are looking for a new man as the situation is pretty much the same in this instance. It’s the way to keep a relationship fresh. While men commonly don’t realise what’s going on you lead a man to your space by connecting with his heart. And the way to his heart is through YOUR heart.

You see, a man longs to be with a woman who creates the safety to feel and share his feelings with (or indeed that he can trust at work). This is because men don’t open up to other men about feelings the way we do with other women. Instead, he reserves those moments for the one woman he is closest to; he trusts.

You show a man his feelings are safe with you by fully feeling and embracing your own feelings – including the difficult feelings. Contrary to the idea that men are afraid of feelings, a man is actually FASCINATED and mesmerized by the way we feel our feelings.

Expressing our feelings devoid of drama

And when it comes to pleasurable feelings, we need to be able to fully and sensually experience them. This combination is so powerful, that men will do anything to be with a woman who lives from her heart this way.

Feminine energy is about being instead of doing. When you focus on simply being in the moment and enjoying a man’s company and attention, you automatically shift your vibe so that he can step into the masculine, doer role. in order to do that, you must first be open to receive…

He needs to know that you value yourself
When you’re open to receiving from a man, you’re sending a message that you value yourself – you believe you’re worthy of his time, attention, gestures, and ultimately his love. Create the space for him to give to you.

Men are competitive creatures
Men value what they have to work hard to get. If a man gets a sense that you’re completely devoted to him with very little investment on his part, he’ll question your value.

Sending the message loud and clear that you’re a woman who puts herself first and that you are a prize motivates your man, to rise to the challenge and do something which he knows that you like and so be your champion.

What if I’ve done something to make him angry? Find out ways to create a positive outcome!